It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of John Mahar on November 15th, 2022. A beloved Father, Husband, Son, Brother, and friend to all. Predeceased by his father-in-law Eldon Pittman. Left with the fond and loving memories of his wife Lorelei of 27 years. His sons, Adam (Brooke) and Andrew; his parents John and Mary Mahar; Brothers, Melvin (Lisa), Tyler (Tamara); his mother-in-law Margaret Pittman; sister-in-law Marie Ruggaber; brother-in-law Todd (Andrea) Pittman; nieces and nephew, Ashley, Hailey, Simon, Maryella, Brandy, Abby, and Amber; his fur grandbaby Basil; and his closest friends Paul, Vanda, Patrick (Emily), Mackenzie (Todd) Dove. John was truly too good for this world and to know his loyal friendship, love, and tenderness was a gift. He spent his life as a Clinical Psychologist and devoted his life to helping others. We will never truly know how many lives he touched. Cremation will take place and a private family service will take place at a later date.
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Georgina Barry says
November 17, 2022 at 11:01 amSo very sorry and shocked to hear of John’s death. We worked together and l have many fond memories of that time. He will be missed.
Nena Sandoval says
November 17, 2022 at 11:44 amMy sincere condolences to John and his family. John was a positive, intelligent man who loved his family and was well respected in the psychology community. I was fortunate to be at his wedding and met his lovely wife.
Denise Butt says
November 17, 2022 at 12:54 pmMy condolences to Lorelei, Adam, Andrew & Mr. & Mrs. Maher. I replaced John at JPMH in Gander when he went to Clarenville & we kept in professional contact over the years. John was a gentle kind soul and a valued colleague. So saddened by his passing.
Michele Davis says
November 17, 2022 at 12:58 pmJohn was a kind, caring and smart human being and I feel so blessed to have known him. Sending my love to his beautiful family.
Kerry Ann Maidment says
November 17, 2022 at 1:01 pmI had the opportunity to speak with John on a few occasions over the years as we discussed the psychology profession. He was warm and engaging. This is very sad news. Sincerest condolences to his family, his friends, and colleagues.
Rita Barron says
November 17, 2022 at 1:23 pmMy deepest condolences .
Kirsten Doody says
November 17, 2022 at 1:33 pmI am so sorry to hear of the loss of John. I know Lorelei loved him so deeply, and I am heartbroken that she has lost her best friend. My condolences to all those feeling his loss.
Wynn Anne Warren says
November 17, 2022 at 1:38 pmLorelie, Adam, Andrew and family; words escape us all at this time. Please know that any who knew John know that you were his pride and joy, he loved you all dearly, his eyes literally glistened with joy and pride when he spoke of family. Hold each other tightly and share the memories of such a great man, he was a helper to many and you guys will carry his torch now by holding each other up and finding ways to keep each other strong in the days ahead.
Sheena Chaytor says
November 18, 2022 at 11:17 amBeautiful words Wynn Anne.
Heather Conran Paul says
November 17, 2022 at 1:44 pmTo the Maher family,
I am quite saddened to hear of John’s passing. He and I collaborated for many years. he was always giving of his time and his professional wisdom. His passing is a great loss to those he has helped and the Psychology Community. I hope your memories bring you smiles during these difficult days.
Olga Heath says
November 17, 2022 at 1:48 pmI was so sorry to hear that John had died. His death is a huge loss to the psychology community. He worked with me in developing treatment for those affected by eating disorders in his region a number of years ago. He was a great asset to the team which was trying to do this difficult work. He will be greatly missed professionally as well as personally.
Caroline, Stephen Collin & Stacey Frost says
November 17, 2022 at 6:25 pmLorelei, Adam and Andrew. So sorry for your loss. Sending you all strength in the days ahead. Take care. One day at a time
Jim Woodrow says
November 17, 2022 at 1:50 pmMay his memory be a blessing to all those who shared his life
Natalie and Danny Moody says
November 17, 2022 at 1:50 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew and family. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. John was an amazing person that has touched the lives of many. Our deepest condolences.
Sandi and Paul Baker says
November 17, 2022 at 1:53 pmDeepest condolences on your loss. John was a wonderful person who touched many lives in a positive way. Sending our thoughts and love to you and your family at this difficult time.
Wynn Anne Warren says
November 17, 2022 at 1:59 pmLorelie, Adam, Andrew and family; words escape us all at this time. Please know that all who knew John know that you were his pride and joy, he loved you all dearly, his eyes literally glistened with joy and pride when he spoke of family. Hold each other tightly and share the memories of such a great man, he was a helper to many and you guys will carry his torch now by holding each other up and finding ways to keep each other strong in the days ahead.
Carolyn Chard says
November 17, 2022 at 2:19 pmLorilei, Adam & Andrew, so very sorry for your loss. I worked with John as a part of the Mental Health and Addictions team in Clarenville for one year back in 2017. He was one of my cherished teammates and made me feel at home from the minute I walked through the door on my first day until I left on my last day. Thinking about you all. Take care
Cody& Amanda Tait says
November 17, 2022 at 2:20 pmSo sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all at this time ❤ xoxo
Marilyn Anthony says
November 17, 2022 at 2:30 pmSo sorry to hear of John’s passing. I worked with him in the early years of his career at James Paton Hospital. He was a kind and caring person. Condolences to his family.
Linda Smith Drover says
November 17, 2022 at 2:33 pmSo deeply sorry to hear of Johns passing. I had occasion to know John professionally through Eastern Health. He was alway knowledgeable, kind and eager to help. Lorelei my heart is broke for you and your boys. May all of the memories of your wonderful life together give you comfort during this difficult time
Daphn Snow says
November 20, 2022 at 12:41 pmI’m so sorry too hear of John’s passing. My condolences to his family. He was a very nice person and a good philologist. Helped my son for years. May he rest in peace.
Wanda Green says
November 17, 2022 at 2:54 pmJohn was a friend. long-time colleague, proud dad, son and husband. He made an amazing contribution to so many lives, most of which no one ever knew about. I will miss his wisdom, his presence, and his passion for being the best Psychologist. He was very smart, compassionate, and had a work ethic second to none. I want to say thank you John for your service and I want to encourage his family to cherish every memory and know how very happy his family made him everyday.
Susan Rideout & Family says
November 17, 2022 at 3:32 pmOur prayers and thoughts are with Lorelei. Andrew ,Adam ,Brook , Mr &Mrs Mahar and Mrs Pittman . And the rest of John Family and Friends John was a kind soul to all that knew him.We Wiil cherish the times and memories we made over years with him Rest easy and fly with the angels John you will dearly be missed by all
Love Susan Jimmy Jared &Leah Rideout .
Sandy Gamba says
November 17, 2022 at 3:53 pmI only knew John through our work together over the years. He was so friendly, patient, kind and dedicated in his work life, so I can only imagine how much sadness his family and close friends are feeling. I’m so, so very sorry for your loss of this wonderful man.
David, Chantelle & Grayson Harris says
November 17, 2022 at 4:04 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew, and family. John was an amazing person who touched the lives of so many people. My family & I feel so lucky to have known him. He was one of the nicest, most compassionate man you could ever meet. Our heart breaks for you! Sending prayers that you will find peace in your memories of John. RIP in peace my friend!
Sonya Mahar says
November 17, 2022 at 4:31 pmJohn was always a point of pride for our whole family. Everyone held him in high esteem. This is a great loss for our family and our community. Know that so many are grieving with you. We are so hurt that you are hurting so much.
Mary Ann Baker says
November 17, 2022 at 4:57 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew and family I can’t begin to tell you how sorry I am to hear of John’s passing. He was a wonderful man who loved his family dearly. May the cherished memories you have help you through this extremely difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers
Bernice says
November 17, 2022 at 5:45 pmCondolences to the family.
Colleen Kearley says
November 17, 2022 at 6:10 pmLorilee and family please accept my sincere condolences. John was always so thoughtful and kind in all my interactions with him. You are in my thoughts.
Jim & Michelle Hughes says
November 17, 2022 at 6:33 pmOur deepest condolences to the Mahar family and friends.
Shawn chatman says
November 17, 2022 at 6:42 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew, and family.
Deepest condolences to you and family,
I was shocked to hear of John’s passing .
Thinking of you all .
Shawn and Pauline
Matt Holloway & Vicki Bursey says
November 17, 2022 at 7:08 pmMy deepest condolences to Lorelei and the boys. John was always so fun to be around and We always enjoyed our conversations at the cabin. You will be deeply missed by so many.
Bev stone says
November 17, 2022 at 7:17 pmLorelei and family. So sorry to hear of John’s passing. Hold your memories close. Will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Michelle Hogan says
November 17, 2022 at 7:33 pmLorelei. Rick Liam and I were shocked to hear of John’s Passing. Our Family would not be where we are today only for his Help and patience and understanding. He will be deeply missed. Please accept or Heartfelt Condolences for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our Prayers.
Beverly McLean says
November 17, 2022 at 7:38 pmJohn had the warmest smile. Always kind, and generous with his time and wisdom. Sincere condolences to his family. Rest easy John.
Doreen and Jim Stryde says
November 17, 2022 at 8:01 pmSending our condolences to the family. Keeping you in our thoughts at this difficult time.
Donna Hicks Chaulk says
November 17, 2022 at 8:12 pmSo sorry to hear the sad news about John. We lived in the same house on University Ave. in St. John’s in 1985. John and three others in the basement and myself and three others upstairs. What memories was made that year! Condolences to his family.
Cynthia Leyte-Kelly says
November 17, 2022 at 8:19 pmLorelei, I am so very sorry to hear of John’s passing. My deepest condolences to you, your boys, and all of John’s family, friends and co-workers. We first met when John came to work in Gander. I have so many wonderful memories of spending time with you both, attending your wedding, and visiting your home in Charlottetown and Clarenville. The last time we saw each other was at a volleyball tournament a few years ago. John was such a wonderful person who loved dearly and seemed to enjoy life to the fullest. One of my memories is how much he loved to dance. I still think of him every time I hear the song ” Cotton-Eyed Joe”. Please know I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. May all your precious memories of John provide some measure of comfort and peace at this time.
Marilyn and Gerard Greeene says
November 17, 2022 at 8:25 pmLorelei myself and Marilyn are so very sorry to hear of Johns passing . During my career in justice I had many opportunities to witness the impact John had on so many lives. His dedication to his profession combined with his easygoing demeanour enabled him to help so many. Marilyn and I have many fond memories of Christmas celebrations with you both..Take comfort in a life well lived.💕
Brenda Bishop says
November 17, 2022 at 8:41 pmLorelei and family, I am so saddened to hear of John’s passing. Sending prayers that your love and cherished memories will give you strength during this time.
Bradley Bailey says
November 17, 2022 at 9:13 pmI am so saddened to hear of this loss. This is an unimaginable loss for the family and also our community.
I was a patient of Johns for 13 years. He was not just a care provider to me. He was a valued friend, and my personal superhero. He inspired me and will continue to inspire me for forever, as I’m sure he did for others. I will miss John terribly and send my deepest condolences to his family who he spoke so lovingly about.
Maria and Paul Richards says
November 17, 2022 at 9:53 pmOur deepest condolences to you all. A wonderful person.
Courtney Gidge says
November 17, 2022 at 10:37 pmLorelei and family, I am so saddened to hear of John’s passing. He truly was one of a kind. The love and dedication he poured into every aspect of his life was beyond compare. I feel honored to have known him during my years working at Coish Place. Whether it was morning coffee break or a Christmas party, John was there to make sure everyone was having a good time!
My heart goes out to you all xoxo
Claudette Clarke says
November 17, 2022 at 10:51 pmLorelei, Adam and Andrew I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I did not know John personally but from hearing Lorelei speak often of her family I know what a strong connection you all had and how much love was in your home. Use the strength of that love to help each other through this difficult time. Sending love and prayers to you all.
Paul Griffin says
November 17, 2022 at 11:14 pmAdam and Family ,
Very sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Kim Griffin says
November 17, 2022 at 11:19 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew and family,
I am so sorry to hear about John’s passing. John’s genuine, caring, and easy manner allowed him to amazingly connect with others. It was a privilege to experience that connection. His deep love for his family was clear, as you were his ‘pride and joy’. Given he has touched so many lives, John’s memory will live on in the many contributions he made to his family, friends, profession and community. I am thinking of you and sending you healing prayers.
Ashley says
November 17, 2022 at 11:38 pmI am so deeply sorry for this tremendous loss. I have heard such lovely stories of John from you Lorelei and I could see the love in your eyes and hear the love in your words when speaking of him. My heart is with you and your two handsome young men during this difficult time. Sending love and prayers.
Monica Bull says
November 17, 2022 at 11:43 pmSo very sad to hear this news today. John and I were colleagues and friends in the early 90s and commuted together daily to our mental health and addictions jobs in Gander. I remember John with a passion for his profession and a gentleness, kindness and compassion that he carried in all aspects of his life. I am sad that we lost touch over the years. My sincere condolences to Lorelei, his sons, family, friends and colleagues on this enormous loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen Drover says
November 17, 2022 at 11:45 pmLori lei,
Thinking of you all during this difficult time! He was a great man and will be greatly missed! Hugs!
Mary Larner-Pardy says
November 18, 2022 at 1:15 amDear Lorelei, Adam and Andrew. We are shocked and saddened to learn of John’s passing. He was truly a wonderful individual. He was a voice of reason and compassion and truly had a gift of connection to all who knew him. I hope he knew how valued and respected an individual he was. Our deepest condolences to you all. May he Rest In Peace.
Earl Green says
November 18, 2022 at 5:15 amCondolences to the Mahar family. So sorry to hear of your loss.
Susan Wiseman says
November 18, 2022 at 6:19 amSo very sorry to hear of John’s passing. I remember working with him years ago. He was always so pleasant and helpful. Thinking of you all and hoping your memories will bring you some comfort.
Isabelle Borja says
November 18, 2022 at 8:02 amA tremendous loss in our community and the lives of all those who knew John. For as long as I’ve known him, I’ve admired his kindness, warmth, humor and dedication to his family and clients. He loved his family and friends so much, and I hope those memories continue to give you all comfort and peace. Sending all my love.
Charlie and Cecily Drodge says
November 18, 2022 at 9:06 amOur deepest condolences to all the family and friends at this sad time! Our thoughts are with you all!
Zita Boutcher says
November 18, 2022 at 9:25 amI am heartbroken to hear of John’s passing. My happiest and fondest memories growing up all include him. He was always kind, compassionate and supportive, never saying an unkind word about or to anyone – the best cousin and friend you could ever ask for, or possibly deserve. My heart goes out to his wife, sons, parents, brothers, and all other family members and friends who had the privilege to share his life. With all my love.
Deena Strang says
November 18, 2022 at 9:44 amOver 26 years ago John welcomed me into the mental health team. He was always a sparkle even on the dark days. John was a brilliant, strong and loving person who served us all with the greatest of heart. Lorelei, Adam and Andrew keep his love within your heart because that is where his heart lives. Sending warm hugs and many prayers.
Joy Sparkes says
November 18, 2022 at 9:46 amLorelei
My sincere and heartfelt sympathy to you, Adam and Andrew. I was so saddened with the news of John’s passing. I will be thinking of you and hoping that your many wonderful memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Melissa Cormier says
November 18, 2022 at 10:09 amThis is a tremendous loss to all who knew John. I only had the privilege of working with him for a few months, but it was clear that he was a loving and kind father and husband, as well as a well-respected Psychologist that our team and the community was so lucky to have. He has left a positive impact on every person he met, both personally and professionally. I will not forget his warm smile or the kindness in his eyes. My deepest condolences to John’s family during this difficult time. Thinking of you all..
Candice Squires says
November 18, 2022 at 10:55 amMy deepest condolences to all the friends, coworkers and especially his family at this difficult time. John was an incredible person, the light in the lives of many people- family, friends and clients. I had the pleasure of working with John for a number of years at Coish Place, it was great to get to know him, see his love for his family, and to see him let loose and dance up a storm any chance he could. John has made great impacts on the lives of many, more than most people will ever know. He was a very intelligent, compassionate person, and he will be greatly missed. Thank you, John, for everything you have done, your memory will forever be cherished.
Fred Russell says
November 18, 2022 at 11:01 amVery saddened to hear of Johns passing. His impact on our community and those who depended on his guidance, support and encouragement will never be known. He will indeed be missed. My condolences to his family. You should be so proud of his achievements in life, in particular his desire for helping others in need.
Fred Russell
Port Union
Mary Lou Vey says
November 18, 2022 at 11:23 amDearest Lorelei, Adam and Andrew and family ,
So very sadden to hear of John’s passing! Our thoughts and prayers and hugs are with you all as you move through the days and weeks and months ahead. May you find comfort and strength in your precious memories of your life with John and in the knowledge that John was so admired by all those who knew him ( whatever capacity that was) . Please know that if you need anything , do not hesitate to reach out ! Hugs to you all and may you Rest In Peace John!
Sheena Chaytor says
November 18, 2022 at 11:25 amLorelei, family and loved ones
My heart is with you during this sad time. Although I did not know John I’ve worked with Lorelei over the last decade and she always spoke with such pure joy of her and John’s love, marriage and partnership; he sounded like a wonderful man. My heart is breaking for you all during this time. Please relish in the wonderful memories and know that he is no longer long in pain and has embraced with the angels above. xoxox
Lynnette & Greg Penney says
November 18, 2022 at 12:57 pmThere are so many wonderful memories of John during the many years I have known him. Some of my favorite times were spent hearing about all his family, who you could see he ADORED. He was a gentle soul with a wonderful laugh who always made work a brighter place. He will be greatly missed. It was a privilege to have him in our lives.
Lorelei, Adam, Andrew and the rest of his family that I feel I know from all his stories, my sincerest condolences. I know you all have beautiful memories of him to hold close and give you strength during this most difficult time.
Georgina Collins says
November 18, 2022 at 1:09 pmCondolences Lorelei and your family
I will always remember his smile laugh and kind words and i will never forget him or you for all your help
Cherish the memories he will not be forgotten
Paula Hann says
November 18, 2022 at 1:13 pmLorelei, Adam and Andrew, we are so sorry to hear of John’s passing. Our hearts are with you and your entire family. John will always be remembered as one of the nicest men we’ve ever met. Your family has always been so kind, especially to Trey over the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this unbearable time and we hope your memories help you through. Please reach out if you need anything. Love Paula, Randy, Trey and Shelley.
Natasha Curran says
November 18, 2022 at 1:56 pmLorelei, Adam and Andrew , please accept my condolences on the passing of John. John was first a colleague and then my supervisor when I started my first Clinical Psychologist job in Bonavista. He was an intelligent, kind, and genuine person who fully invested in his personal and professional relationships. As I moved onto other positions over the past 26 years, John’s influence stayed with me, especially the importance of having a work-life balance. When we spoke, we talked of work and we talked of family. It was clear the love he had for his wife and boys. This is a tragic loss and a horrible time for you all. I hope, in time, these messages will bring comfort to you all in knowing how loved and respected John was. May he rest in peace. Thanks for everything, John.
Natasha Normore says
November 18, 2022 at 2:16 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew and family my heart breaks for you all.
It was a pleasure to have known John, he always had such a gentle and kind demeanour and his eyes would just sparkle every time Lorelei entered the room. Always funny, cheerful and friendly, John had a light about him that will always be remembered and missed by all who knew him. Hold on to your precious memories, the joy and love that he brought to your lives, his love and excitement of Christmas and the pride he had for each of you. No words can be spoken to ease the heartache but know that a person who brought so much sunshine to anyone who knew him, will never be forgotten and live on in all the lives he touched both through his psychology profession and his personal life.
Big hugs xoxo
Dawn Smith-Skulski says
November 18, 2022 at 2:23 pmMy most sincere condolences to John’s Family. I too had the privilege of working with John. Our Team were the pioneers for Clarenville Mental Health Services and he held steadfast. His work ethic was very strong and he touched the lives of many, including his co-workers. He loved his wife and children very much and was committed to them. He will be missed.
wally howse says
November 18, 2022 at 2:33 pmI am heartbroken to hear of John’s passingI
I have being a patient of Johns for over 15 years. He was not just a care provider to me. He was a valued friend to me as well. He inspired me as i know he did others. I will miss John terribly and send my deepest condolences to all his family -rest in peace John.
Darrell Little-Stokes says
November 18, 2022 at 3:17 pmSo sorry to hear of the loss of this man! Like many John saw me through one of the darkest moments of my life and without his guidance I may not have made it! He was such an encourager! So sad to hear this! My heartfelt condolences to his family on such a great loss! RIP John! Your truely have your wings now!
Crystal and Keith says
November 18, 2022 at 3:32 pmSometimes in life you are lucky enough to be blessed with the best of friends – like Lorelei and John. We will so miss John’s quick smile, his fun and caring nature and, compassionate, kind soul. We will miss the good advice, the card games, dice, bike rides and the dancing – oh will we ever miss the dancing. John, you were a bright light, a confidant and an amazing friend. I feel honoured to have witnessed your love for Lorelei and your boys. You wore your love of your family on your sleeve – ALWAYS. You and Lorelei share a gift of being able to connect with people at the deepest level and those of us who experienced that are so grateful. Knowing you was a gift we will treasure forever. We will miss you so much and our hearts are broken for your family. I know you showed them enough love to last a lifetime. Lorelei, Adam and Andrew I hope in time the wonderful memories bring you comfort and that the love of family and friends help you navigate the days ahead.
Afshan Afsahi says
November 18, 2022 at 3:43 pmI was shocked and saddened to hear the news of John’s passing. He was a fantastic psychologist and a wonderful colleague. His constant smile and energy will be missed. My deepest condolences go out to his family.
Carolyn & John Frampton says
November 18, 2022 at 3:59 pmMyself and John were so sad to hear about John’s passing. Our deepest condolences to the family.
Gina Butt says
November 18, 2022 at 4:37 pmLorelei, Adam, and Andrew, I am so sorry to hear of John’s passing. I have known and worked with John for as long as I have been in Clarenville which would be about 25 years now. John was the kindest and most gentle person I have had the privilege to have known and worked with. Not a Xmas party went by without having a dance or two with John. Not many could keep up with him on the dance floor. He certainly owned it. He will be greatly missed by his friends, coworkers, and the community. Thinking of all of his family at this difficult time.
Dennis Manuel says
November 18, 2022 at 4:41 pmLorelei, Adam & Andrew… I am so sorry for your loss. John was a friend and a colleague, who was deeply loved and respected. He will be immensely missed. I hope you find peace and comfort during this time.
Olivia Winsor says
November 18, 2022 at 5:00 pmI entered the office of John Mahar in 2018 feeling defeated and seeing no purpose in life. Little did I know over the next 5 years this man would save me time and time again. Thank you John for always guiding me through my darkest moments and helping me find the light in my life again. Thank you for reading all of my 2am essay rants and always following up the next day to check in on me. Thank you for listening to music (mainly Taylor Swift) in our appointments and letting me express my thoughts and feelings in a nonjudgmental safe space. I’m sorry for all the times I was willful to your advice and wouldn’t talk to you because I knew you were right. You always were right. It was an honour and blessing to have worked with you through my darkest days. I never would have made it where I am today without you ❤️
He truly was an inspiration to all who knew him. Sending my deepest condolences to his family, friends, coworkers and clients 🫶 you will be missed by so many.
Lana and Dion Park says
November 18, 2022 at 5:16 pmLorelei, Adam , Andrew and family,. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. To be honest I struggled with what to write as there are so many wonderful memories of John that I wanted to share. Like many of his colleagues, he welcomed me to Mental Health team in Clarenville with open arms, for that I’m forever grateful. Oh and the fun times we have had at Laskey Place and most recently Coish Place. His dance moves are a precious memory. John has touched so many lives, colleagues, friends, clients and most importantly family. He LOVED his family dearly and spoke of them so proudly. Keep each other close, reach out to your supports and remember John will be forever cherished by so many people. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Deanne, Keith, Hannah & Kennedy Ivany says
November 18, 2022 at 5:37 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew & family, to say we were fortunate to know John as a friend and coworker is an understatement. He was a shining star at the office both when I first started at Laskey Place to our Coish Place days. He have touched the lives of so many people through his kindness, love, compassion and professionalism. His love for his family shone through like no other. Please hold comfort in the many wonderful memories you have and the love that he had for you all. Sending our deepest condolences and much love.
Monica Bull says
November 18, 2022 at 7:13 pmI was shocked and saddened to hear of John’s passing. We were friends and colleagues in the early 90s as we started careers in mental health (he) and addictions (I) in Gander – at a time when services were separate and scarce. I got to know John with a passion and zest for his new profession and a kindness, gentleness and compassion that he carried in all aspects of his life. His love for Lorelei and his family was strong. We also commuted together with a couple of others and had some harrowing drives in snowstorms. We once brought up solid in a blinding snow drift in the middle of the TCH and I was certain that it was the end of us all. As usual, John was the calm presence and voice of reason as we escaped our predicament! Our carpooling gang had lots of fun at John and Lorelei’s wedding. As careers and lives took us in new directions, we sadly lost touch. My thoughts and prayers are with John’s family, friends, colleagues and clients. I know you are all suffering an enormous loss. I’ve thought of you a lot in the past 24 hrs, you have touched many lives over the past 30+ years and now your work here is done. Rest in Peace, John.
Robert Clarke and Family says
November 18, 2022 at 8:10 pmI was very sad to hear of John’s passing. John was my first cousin and a very good friend. We grew up next door to each other, went to University together, and lived together for a period of time. I have so many memories of wonderful times with him. John was so funny, always happy and always willing to get into whatever trouble we could find. He was a kind spirit with a big heart and whenever we saw each other, we had great stories to share. He spent his life supporting others in need – the condolences here are a testament to the impact he had on so many people. From my family, sincere condolences to Lorelei, Adam, Andrew, his parents and brothers Melvin and Tyler; we are so sorry for your great loss. John was a large personality who will be missed by us all.
Sarah Luther says
November 18, 2022 at 9:45 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew and Family,
Thinking of you all deeply as you go through this difficult time. Johns presence always brought so much comfort and peace – and yes, pure sunshine at social events! But, the sparkle from his eyes and a smile so big when he would talk of you, Lorelei, and the boys was something to be truly treasured. He always expressed so much pride and love for his family.
John will definitely always hold a special place in my heart as well as in the hearts of so many people – Iam sure more then we can ever imagine. I hope in the coming weeks the special memories you all have help bring some comfort, and the memories of good times will shine through for peace.
Thinking of you all deeply.
Sincere Condolences,
Sarah
Claudette Butland says
November 18, 2022 at 8:16 pmLorelei, Adam and Andrew and all of John’s family and friends. We are shocked and saddened to hear of John’s passing. While I haven’t seen him in a while, I will always remember his smile and his laugh. Being in his presence brought joy. He loved his family dearly. Hold each other closely and take comfort knowing you are loved.
Wendy Bailey says
November 18, 2022 at 9:35 pmLorelei, I am so very sad to hear of John’s passing. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family during this time.
Shelley Fitzgerald says
November 18, 2022 at 10:11 pmWhile the words don’t come easy… the feelings are overwhelming. John was a treasured friend and coworker for my entire career. He was as available to his coworkers as much as his clients as a trusted source of support and positivity. I will deeply miss so many things about you John, your soft gentle voice, your almost childlike enthusiastic anticipation of social activities at work, and your brilliance as a highly respected psychologist. Advice you’ve given me both personally and professionally will continue to resonate with me always. To Lorelei, Andrew and Adam and his whole family please know that John’s life was full and blessed because of you, and that we all feel broken by the loss of such a wonderful man. All our love
Shelley and Terry
Tiah and Larry Pelley says
November 18, 2022 at 10:29 pmMy heart sunk when I heard the news of John passing. It doesn’t feel real. A beautiful person who has so much warmth that could be felt when in his presence. I feel privileged to have gotten to work with both John and Lorelei over the years. From Laskey place to Coish place and further to that- becoming cabin neighbours and friends. I loved how they both spoke of each other and their boys. He gave so much of himself to so many. I will forever cherish my memories of him. From dancing at Christmas parties, work socials and chats to time spent at the cabin. The world is a better place because he was in it. We are sending all our love to all his family at this devastating time. Love, Tiah and Larry.
Kimberly De Groot says
November 18, 2022 at 11:43 pmLorelei and John were the first people I met while working in Clarenville. John was always so kind and considerate , a good soul .Lorelei my heart breaks for you and your sons. Prayers for you and your family xo
Lori Pilgrim Greening says
November 19, 2022 at 6:40 amIt has been a great honour to know John (and Lorelei) since my teenage years. When Adam turned around 6 months old, John and Lorelei would ask me to come by and watch him about once per month so they could go out for a date night. As a teenager, I remember noticing how much fun they had with each other and how much love they showed toward their boys. John and Lorelei extended that loving nature toward me as well — always quick to praise me for being dependable and responsible. When I made the decision to pursue a career as a helping professional, John became one of my supporters and valued mentors. I had the opportunity one summer to work with him and the mental health team at Tilley’s Road. John was eager to support my learning (as I know he has done for so many other junior staff over his career) and had a genuine way of fostering confidence. He came with vast knowledge and intelligence, and at the same time, he was able to make those around him feel confident and capable. John worked with his clients to help them build mastery and a strong sense of self. He was so skilled at this because it was genuinely part of him; he had a way of making everyone he interacted with feel valued and important. Nearly 20 years later, I was fortunate to join the mental health team at Coish Pl and work with John as a colleague. I will always be grateful for the resources he shared and the consultations he provided. I am – without doubt – a better clinician because of him. To Lorelei, Adam, Andrew, Mr. & Mrs. Mahar, and the rest of John’s family: John was a wonderful human and the world is a better place because of him. Sending you all my very deepest condolences.
Paul Parsons says
November 19, 2022 at 3:03 pmMy deepest condolences to Lorelei and family. A wonderful friend, husband, father, and clinician. He will be greatly missed. Thinking of you at this time.
Marie Pelley says
November 19, 2022 at 3:28 pmMy dear Lorelei & family,I am so saddened to hear of the passing of your dear husband & a wonderful dad to your boys.I want to assure you of my thoughts & prayers during this very sad & difficult time. May you & your boys find strength & comfort from the memories that you have created with your precious loved one. May God cover you all with His Peace & Bless you today & in the days that lie ahead.Sending Love,hugs & prayers. Marie Pelley
Lori Wiseman says
November 19, 2022 at 3:38 pmAs a patient of John’s for many years, I am so saddened to hear of his passing. During my most difficult and darkest times, John was always there to listen and offer the best care and advise. I am who I am today because of him and I will forever be grateful. John was not only my councillor, he was my hero. RIP John… Condolences to all of his family and friends. Thoughts and prayers to you all ❤️
Brandon St.Croix says
November 19, 2022 at 5:37 pmWhen I moved to Clarenville five years ago, John welcomed me into Coish Place not only as a coworker but as a friend. His support, compassion, and knowledge in and out of the office will always be remembered. When I remember John, I think of more than the amazing psychologist he was but I remember the proud father he was to Adam and Andrew, and the love and affection he had for Lorelei. Family meant everything to John and not a day would pass without him sharing the pride he had for his family and their accomplishments. I feel fortunate to be present for John’s fun caring energy with the desire to ensure everyone had a great time. I hold tight many memories of nights of cards and darts, cabin fun, and work socials. John’s kindness and selflessness towards his friends was second to none. I am a better clinican and person for knowing John. He will be forever missed and always remembered.
Bev Cater says
November 19, 2022 at 5:40 pmMy thoughts and prayers are with John’s family, friends and colleagues at this difficult time.
As I worked with John for many years, I know he was an awesome Psychologist. He was an impressive voice for rural Psychology, a strong advocate for the profession, a tremendous support to students, and a very warm person. It is a tremendous loss and I know he will be fondly remembered by all of us who had the privilege to know him.
Sylvia and Blair Skinner says
November 19, 2022 at 6:21 pmWords cannot describe the sadness we feel for you all (Lorelei, your boys, Aunt Mary and Uncle John Joe, Melvin and Tyler with your own families and all our extended families that loved him dearly) hearing of John’s passing. John Joe (as i always knew him growing up) was the kind fun loving cousin who you always felt good to be around. I love that photo of him because you see the sparkle in his eyes and the kindness in his soul. Although it has been years since we’ve seen you all i fondly remember your wedding and the fun we had celebrating your big day. John will forever hold a special place in our hearts and we send you all much love during this very difficult time.
Jenna Murphy says
November 19, 2022 at 7:07 pmAnyone who knows Lorelei knows the extraordinarily love between her and John. Hold that love tight. My thoughts are with the whole family. Rest In Peace, John.
Catherine Power says
November 19, 2022 at 8:56 pmJohn was a cherished friend, colleague and a brilliant Psychologist who I am blessed to have known.When I joined the Mental Health and Addictions Team years ago he warmly welcomed me.John was a tremendous mentor guiding me along in his kind,gentle and brilliant way.For many years our offices were side by side and most days started with a check in about the day ahead and ended in the evening with a check out.John offered a listening ear, word of encouragement and his support was unwavering.Inevitably our conversations always included family stories and updates.John’s love and pride for his beloved Lorelei, Adam ,Andrew his parents and family was profound. I will forever remember John’s kindness,his dedication to his clients and profession and foremost his devotion to his family,the bounce in his step as he joyfully went home at the end of the day to his Lorelei and boys.Lorelei,Adam,Andrew,Brooke,Mr. and Mrs. Mahar and family my sincere condolences to you.May your cherished memories and time together bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Angie, Isabelle and Henry Borja says
November 19, 2022 at 9:34 pmTo Lorelei, Adam, Andrew and John’s loved ones— like so many who knew John and your family, we share your unspeakable grief and loss.
Please be assured of our prayers for the eternal repose of John’s kind and gentle soul as well as for your peace and consolation.🙏
Shawn Best says
November 20, 2022 at 8:32 amLorelei, Adam, Andrew and family. My sincere condolences on John’s passing.He was an extraordinary individual! Take care and cherish all your wonderful memories!
Sherry Gale & Family says
November 20, 2022 at 1:05 pmOur deepest condolences, praying and thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. May the wonderful memories help ease the pain in hard times ahead. Take care!
Paul Spurvey says
November 20, 2022 at 2:08 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew, Uncle John Joe, Aunt Mary, Melvin, Tyler, and extended family:
My family and I are very sad to hear of John’s passing. Our heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. We would like to wish you our deepest condolences.
Unfortunately, we did not get to see each other for far too long but I remember John as a cool, kind, caring, and fun loving first cousin who never had a mean bone in his body.
Melissa Hoskins says
November 20, 2022 at 8:19 pmLike all who had the pleasure of knowing him, I was deeply saddened to learn of John’s passing. I had the pleasure of interacting with John during monthly meetings through work. He was truly a warm and genuinely kind individual. No matter the the challenge, he always put forward a brave and optimistic face. My heart goes out to his family at this devastating time.
Holly Hackett says
November 20, 2022 at 10:51 pmWhen I think of John, as I have often done since his passing, I can picture him sitting at his desk or standing in my doorway while we discussed any upcoming team event or social, or even a team break that involved treats (that lorilee would often make with little notice). I can see him rubbing his hands together (as he often done in anticipation/excitement of something fun and social being planned) with a crisp polo shirt, a glowing smile and a true brightness in his eyes. This is how I will always remember him.
As noted in many of the above condolences, John truly spoke in genuine pride when speaking about his family, whether it be lorilee’s newest hobby of sea glass pictures that he proudly showed me, Adam getting settled and engaged, and the many conversations about Andrew’s dedications to the gym and school. You literally could feel the love exude from him when he spoke of his family at any given time, and I know what a tremendous loss he will be to those who loved him.
A truly inspirational psychologist who had such a wealth of knowledge and compassion, that not only benefited his clients, but also his co workers whom learned so so much from him. I will continue to be a better person and clinician because of the things he has taught me in my work and in the love for family.
My heart is with all who have known him and loved him
He will forever be missed .
♥️
Charmaine Mahar says
November 21, 2022 at 1:55 amTo Lorelei, his boys, Mary JohnJoe, his brothers & family..I am so sorry to hear of John Joe’s passing.Please accept my sincere condolences..May your cherished memories ease the pain of the days ahead..RIP John Joe Jr.
Karen Didham says
November 21, 2022 at 9:48 amLorelei, Adam and Andrew I am so sorry and heartbroken to hear of John’s passing. He was loved by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. John had this way, with a big smile and laugh of making everyone feel connected. John will be missed by all. There are no words that can comfort you at this time but know that his family was his love. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.
Daphne Crane-Burt says
November 21, 2022 at 9:59 pmLorelei, Adam, Andrew and all of John’s family,
I had the privilege of getting to know John when he worked at the hospital in Gander many years ago. I will always remember his love for family, his kindness, his laughter, and of course his dancing. John truly made the world a better place. He will be missed.
Jaspen Barker says
November 22, 2022 at 2:14 pmLorelei, Adam, and Andrew, there are no words to express how deeply sorry I am. Please accept my sincere condolences
I had the privilege of working with John and witnessing him impact so many lives in such meaningful and remarkable ways. The compassion and empathy that he showed to his clients and colleagues was indescribable. I will always remember his eagerness to welcome new staff, including myself, and provide them with unwavering guidance, encouragement, and support. I loved to listen to him to talk about his family- sharing some comical parenting story or mishap. I would always admire the way his face would light up at every mention of Lorelei and his boys and the way he incorporated so much fun into his home.
There are few people who have touched and positively impacted as many lives as John did. There are analogies and stories that I learned from John many years ago, that I use in my practice today. I take great comfort and pride in being able to share a piece of legacy with others through these stories and memories.
Thinking of you,
Jaspen Barker
Kelly Strong says
November 22, 2022 at 7:59 pmLorelei and family, I am so deeply saddened to hear of John’s passing. What an incredibly kind, compassionate and brilliant man. John helped so many and always had a supportive ear for his co-workers. Please know I am thinking of you during this difficult time.
Karen Powre says
November 23, 2022 at 9:45 amI am so sorry for your loss. It was always evident how deeply you love John and I cannot imagine the pain and heartache you’re feeling. Thinking of you, Adam and Andrew at this difficult time.
Dawn and Dan Mercer says
November 23, 2022 at 1:44 pmLorelei, Adam and Andrew our hearts ache at this news. Our thoughts are with you all.
Eileen Johnson says
November 23, 2022 at 5:22 pmLorelei, Adam , Andrew and other family members when Judy called me from Coish Place and let me know of John’s passing my heart truly sank and all of you have been in my thoughts and prayers since that day. I was not able (for several reasons) to physically be part of these difficult days but please know that John and your family have seldom left my thoughts. As many of the above comments have noted John was a helpful friend and colleague during difficult times both professionally and personally for me, He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. I trust that your loving memories of him will help you cope with this great loss , bring you some comfort and get you through these difficult days even though I can only imagine how difficult these days are for all of you..
Rhonda & Mike Luscombe says
November 24, 2022 at 12:00 pmReading this obituary makes me think about all the wonderful people I have had the privilege of knowing . John was certainly one of them .When my husband & I moved to Clarenville, John was not only there to help me settle in my new job , but helped my husband off loading our furniture. John was such a kind & gentle soul . I will never forget him . Sending our deepest condolences to you Lori Lee , your boys & the entire family .
Rhonda & Mike Luscombe
Bill & Rona Maidment says
November 25, 2022 at 7:10 pmOur deepest condolences go out to all of John’s family and friends. We were so saddened and shocked to hear of John’s passing. He was a very caring and compassionate man, who helped a lot of people. He will be missed. Our thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time!
Bovina Beaudoin says
December 18, 2022 at 9:35 pmI am just learning of John’s passing. John and I were high school classmates. He was the most sincere, caring, brilliant man. As often happens we lost touch as I moved away from the island. But I will never forget his dedication to education, helping others, and being “the quiet one” in class, but his fun side came out when with his buddies.
I weep for the loss of a friend, for his families’s loss of a father, son, brother, uncle, and his large extended family.
RIP John….you were, and will always be one of the good ones…❤️
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